I don't know your particular case but many women successfully carry babies even with these antiphospholipids, though there is an increased risk for loss. I would make the three hour trip in order to see the perinatologist before making such a life-affecting decision. By getting the odds ratio you may feel more confident. The peri could also determine if you might benefit from aspirin therapy if you do get pregnant.
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Debbie Miller, RN