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Forum Name: Male Sexual Disorders

Question: Erection failure

 071135669 - Sat Aug 25, 2007 6:35 am

I am 18 years old and have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. We decided to have sex when we were both 16, but whilst putting on the condom, i lost my erection. This has happened repeatedly afterwards and despite trying to have sex without a condom, i am still unable to remain hard for intercourse. Please help-it is a purely psychological problem but it has taken over my life and despite the fact that we both love each other, it is severely affecting mine and my girlfriends confidence and so i am not sure how long we can stay together if things stay like this.

 Fox89 - Sun Aug 26, 2007 12:26 pm

Do you smoke cigarettes or weed?
 Debbie Miller, RN - Tue Nov 27, 2007 2:04 pm

User avatar Drugs of many kinds can be a problem. You should see a doctor to see if there is something physiological that could be helped. Beyond that, a therapist might be helpful.

Good luck.

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