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Forum Name: Psychiatric Topics
|johnnieblaze - Fri Nov 07, 2008 7:44 pm||
My girlfriend lost her ex almost a year ago to a drug overdose. She hasn't seen a doctor or psychiatrist. She still has nightmares from time to time, the last a few days ago. She also still has pictures of them together up all over her room and his jewelry on. Im sure this is making it harder to for her to learn to deal with it. What is the general rate of time for someone to begin to come to terms with something like this? We have been dating for about 8 months now and imagine it time for her to start letting go of some of these things. Not get rid of them, but put them aside and begin new with me. Is there anything I can do to help her deal with it myself? Any info would help
|Faye Lang, RN, MSW - Sat Nov 08, 2008 5:13 pm||
Your girlfriend is still grieving the loss of her ex. There are no specific time lines for grief. Some people are able to move on rather quickly, and others take more time. It is positive that she has formed a new relationship with you, although she maintains a connection to the past through pictures and jewelry, etc. There are a number of things that your girlfriend could do. In many areas, there are support groups for Survivors of Suicide, which you could attend with her if she would like. She needs to see a physician or go to a Mental Health clinic to be assessed for medication treatment and talk therapy. Your role is limited to encouraging her to get appropriate help. You can gently share with her your concerns and how you feel about the memorabilia she maintains, but it sounds like she needs professional support at this time.
Good luck to you both.
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